WHY YOU ARE ONLY HIS MISTRESS NOT IS HIS WOMAN

We leave in a society where having a sidechick  or mistress is common, many men feel like after marriage without a sidechick is having a full meal without water .

  Below are some reasons why you are just only his sidechick or mistress not his woman in his life

BECAUSE YOU ALLOW IT

   Many women allow themselves to be put in this category because they allow themselves to be put in they,if you don’t know the real chick it is different, but many women know the real chick and still choose to play along with the man games hoping to supersede the real chick which mostly you don’t get it.

FOR MARITAL BENEFIT

   Some women(sidechick)  just love the gift they get from the man like bills paid,and the package gift been lavish on them and the three minute sekx session which she always dream for. For some women this is worth for to trade for been a sidechick than been a realchick

YOU FEAR FROM A REAL RELATIONSHIP

  Some sidechicks today fall into this situation because of  fear. Because of the series of disappointment in real relationship, which many people are operating on today. Many sidechick think been out of a real relationship is in a safer side because they don’t want to face heart breaks and emotions,while still providing them companionship.

YOU DON’T VALUE YOURSELF

Low self-esteem has drag many women today into been a sidechick. You may have bought into this idea that you don’t have what it takes to be the right woman for this man,that you should keep accepting the left over and scrape he has been feeding you than accepting the full meal of a  man . May be you don’t know before that he already has a realchick, that you are just a sidechick to him and when you finally find out you nothing than a sidechick to him,knowing what you worth will give you the strength not to accept this situation. Don’t allow a man to set your value.