I LIE TO MY BOYFRIEND THAT AM STILL A VIRGIN IN OTHER FOR HIM TO MARRY ME

My name is princess. I am 26-year old,i was once dating two guys and i told them am am still a virgin but unfortunately i lost my virginity to the wrong guy, i lost my virginity to one of the guy which i later found out  he his already married and with kids, am left with the other guy now and i told him that am still a virgin, please tell me anything that we make me be like a virgin when we make love for the first time. Because he swears to marry a virgin.

NAIJAHUD LOVE DOCTOR ADVICE:

 Dear princess telling the truth is always the best in solving every situation,expecially when you want to build trust in your relationship ,tell him the truth, tell your partner you were deflowered by the man you previously thought you will marry you, which you regret now. Telling lies will only destroy the trust he already has for you

   Tell him you are sorry for disappointing him and ask for forgiveness,it will be wrong and unfair if you put in an obscure situation by not telling the truth and it will be worst if he found out by himself  that you have been decieving him all along. Moreover, you have been decieved by a married man and you know how it hurt to be decieved by someoneelse you trust. Follow the “golden rule” do to others what you will like to be done to you.

   Do not feel like telling the truth will make your guy leave you, if he truly loves you he will understand that it not your fault to be disflowered by a man that you trust. Your man need to know the truth because that is,is right. But if leaves after you tell the truth, that will be more better because you still get days ahead of you to liveyour  life you  also find another that will acept you  for whom you are. Than bearing the pain and guilt on your mind forever.

     The truth is this: there is no love without trust , if your partner don’t trust you there is no point wanting to be with you

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