7 TEXT MESSAGE THAT SHOWS THE SIGN, THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS IN TROUBLE

Sex-texting 

If

your

husband is sex-texting someone else , this is obviously a huge

problem. But actually , sex-texting YOU isn ’ t a great sign either.

the happiest couples steer clear from sex-texting . They tend to

send meaningful texts to their sweetheart instead . Unhappy

couples are much more likely to focus on s * xual texts .

2 . Texting a female friend anything he wouldn ’ t tell you

Your husband is going to text other women . It ’ s unrealistic to

expect him not to . But what is written in those texts is crucial.

If he is ranting about his day to her rather than you , he’ s on

risky ground . He might have not been unfaithful yet , but

emotional texting affairs are an easy trap to fall into.

3 . Catching up with an old girlfriend's

It may seem like a harmless check - in , but why does he really

want to text a former girlfriend ? There ’ s really no place for an

ex in a relationship . If he wants to text an old heartthrob, he’ s

most likely not feeling complete in your relationship . It ’ s not

your job to “ complete ” him, but you should be aware of when

he feels this way.

4 . Obsessively texting anyone

His relationships may be 100 percent innocent , but

obsessively texting anyone long- term is likely compensating

for something missing in your relationship . He may feel lonely ,

invalidated or bored . Naturally , he wants to chat with his

friends , but 200 texts a day to anyone is probably a sign he’ s

unhappy about something in his life.

5 . Texting you anything belittling

No one deserves to be belittled – especially by those who

should love them the most . If you ’ re getting these texts , you

most likely already know your marriage is hanging on by a

thread .

6 . Only negative texts

For every negative comment , it takes about five positive

interactions to restore a good relationship . Negative texts may

occasionally slip in , but they should be the exception rather

than the rule. If the majority of his messages are negative , it’ s

possible he’ s forgotten how to see your good attributes.

7 . Texting any sort of threat

If his texts are threatening in any way, don’ t just ignore them ;

Get help . While the previous points are warning signs to help

couples save their relationship before it ’ s too late , this one is

far past that point . Threatening is a form of abuse . Leave, and

get help immediately .