What is the number one problem men face when they want to
approach a woman they find attractive? It is of course, “what
the hell do you say to her.”
What you say on first approach will make or break your
pickup. What you say must be a perfect balance of charm,
flirtiness, intelligence, humor, and must open the door for
further conversation while making the woman comfortable in
talking to you.
Wow! No wonder most men have problems picking up
women. So what is the best way to start a conversation with a
girl?
A pickup line is definitely not the best way. Pickup lines don’t
work. Every half wit knows that. Not only do they not work,
they are a bright neon sign stamped on your forehead
advertising your lack of creativity, intelligence, and screams
BORING to women. Ask any woman if they prefer a good
looking boring guy or an average looking fun guy and you will
be surprised at the answer.
Women look for VALUE in men. Not looks, or power, or chest/
bicep measurements. For the purposes of approaching
women, VALUE is anything that catches the girl’s interest. And
what catches a woman’s interest is something that is unique,
interesting, and something out of the ordinary.
Her life is already filled with boring men and mundane
situations and if somebody like you comes along and provides
value to her otherwise dull existence, you have value in her
eyes. Once she sees you have value, you are pretty much in
and you are free to unleash your charm.
The best way to initiate a conversation with a girl is with what
the pickup artists call opinion openers.
An opinion opener is when you ask a girl her opinion or advise
on some problem. You are essentially asking the girl’s help.
On a psychological bynote, feeling useful and needed is one of
the essentials of human life. Not only do humans like to be
asked for their help and advise on something, they crave it and
need it because it fills one of the essential needs of life.
This is one of the secret psychological tricks pickup artists
use to seduce beautiful women.
One of the best and most effective opinion openers is the “I’m
doing research” opener. A couple examples are:
Hey, I have a website called gQ234.com and I’m writing an
article called, “What beautiful women find attractive in
men.” What’s your take on this subject?
Yo, can you help me out real quick? I’m doing my senior
thesis on the attraction factors between men and women.
What do you look for in men?
Hi, I’m writing an article about what turns off women. Can
you help me out?
Besides the “I’m doing research” opener, there are many
different opinion openers you can use and you can and should
make up your own as the situation dictates. Every woman and
situation is different so you should use your common sense
and creativity to invent different ways to ask for help for
different circumstances.
Opinion openers is a very powerful method that uses several
psychological tricks to get women to open up and talk to you
without it being an outright pickup. But of course, you can
have the best opening line in the world but it means nothing
without the right delivery.
Remember, communication is 55% visual, 38% vocal, and only
7% actual words. So if your delivery sucks, whatever you say
really doesn’t matter. However, if you combine proper delivery
and confidence with the above “I’m doing research” opener,
pretty girls will take numbers and wait in line to have the
privilege of talking to you.
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